TAMMY WRITES LIFE

  Well it certainly doesn't strengthen it or deepen it!  It will test it to its limits and pollute it.  Most often it destroys it and kills it dead instantly or slowly over time in a painful toxic way. As when you love and trust the one person who is closest to you in life, and they betray you, its hard to see them as the same person you loved and thought you knew.  And hard to forgive their betrayal  because you know they don't value you …  Plus it's hard to ever trust them again or anyone else! As you didn't think they would ever do it the first time..but they did!!  It shocks you to the core and initially you trust noone.. as afterall they were the last person you thought would betray you! Without trust you can't be in a relationship with someone, no matter how much you love them. So often that love turns to hate and resentment in the end anyway because they did this and not you.. But if you do get through it which takes a strong love in the first place, and a bl

With  Time! And by which I mean in your own time on your time frame! Firstly take your time to get your head around it all properly and don't do anything at all until you have got over the shock and processed it. You need to give yourself time for it to all sink in first before you can begin to think about the future.. Your well within your rights to ask whatever you want to know about it and to get as many explanations for it as you need to fully comprehend it all. It's the very least they can do after they have betrayed you and shook your entire life up. But if they can't deal with it and refuse to let you know all there is to know about it, don't do anything rash, out of sheer anger and despair but accept that it will just take you longer now to decide what to do about it… Once you have digested it all and got your head around it, you will be in a far better state of mind to know how to deal with it, with your own best interests at heart! As kneejerk reactions to sce

 🙈🙉🙊 By far my worst experience of this was when I was in Sydney   By far my worst experience of this was when I was in Sydney Australia staying with a friend who didn't like smoking in her home and even though she was not home and had gone to work, I respected her wishes and went outside to smoke.  I was in my skimpy short pj's which were more scruffy than sexy, no shoes on my feet, hair unbrushed, and nothing in my hands except for my cigarettes and lighter.. Then the door closed behind me and I realised I had no key, no phone and no money! And on top of being in my pj's, shoeless, looking unkempt, void of keys, money and phone I came to the added reality of it being Australia in summer and likely to hit mid 30s and I had no water or sunscreen on and noone was coming back for at least the next 7 hours.. and I didn't actually know exactly where my friend worked or the name of the company she worked for but I knew that it was in finance for a company in Sydneys finan

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